confusion

Moth · 08-10-2008, 03:53 PM

okay. plain and simple, here it goes. i like girl. girl offers to slut for five bucks. like girl. want her to respect herself/go out with her, but not sex...what I should do?

Netrix · 08-10-2008, 03:58 PM

My suggestion would be to find another girl to like. If she is willing to "slut" for a mere five dollars (or any amount), that should tell you something. I know I would not like a girl that would do such a self-degrading thing, especially when it is not necessary to do.

Moth · 08-10-2008, 05:11 PM

yea...I figured on the moving on part...but I feel like I should try to help her in some way...you know like to respect herself more, make her respect herself...I thought dating-sex might be good way to do that?

ProOne · 08-10-2008, 05:48 PM

Just tell her you would like to enjoy her company for lunch, dinner, even mini-golf or go-carts. If you can't afford it, ask her to pay her way or take her window shopping at the mall. (Hint: Any public place that offers little or no chance for any sex. Movies are out.) Be the boy-scout ideal for the perfect gentleman. Open the door for her. Offer to escort her to her car. Help her study at the library. Compliment her on her intelligence, her personality. Most importantly, make sure that she understands that you are not interested in having sex with her. The more time she spends with you clothed, the more value she may find in herself (and in you).

You don't need to become her boyfriend, just a good friend that just happens to be a guy.