Advice anyone?

[Red Sky]

Hey guys, this is my first post in the advice section asking for well... advice! Anyways, here it goes:

My girlfriend has a gynecologist appointment sometime in the near future, and her mother is going to be with her. I haven't had sex with my girlfriend, but i have fingered her and have done oral. The doctors are going to ask her questions regarding sexual activity, and her mom is bound to find out. I don't really know what we should do at this point, to keep it hidden. We could tell them, but I would rather have her parents like me (like they have for the past 11 months) rather than despise me... it makes things easier.

so... any advice?

[SilentWalrus]

Yeah, just when the question pops up, have your girlfriend ask her mom to leave the room. Or just have her call the gynecologist before the appointment and have him/her ask the mother to leave the room when questions arise. Patient-Doctor confidentiality.

[Matt]

Originally Posted by SilentWalrus

Yeah, just when the question pops up, have your girlfriend ask her mom to leave the room. Or just have her call the gynecologist before the appointment and have him/her ask the mother to leave the room when questions arise. Patient-Doctor confidentiality.

thats what my gf did

[(ಠ_ృ)]

Actually she doesnt even have to ask, the doctor should anyway. If she must though she could just say she has fingered herself. She was curious to see what it was all about and gave it a test run.

[SilentWalrus]

Originally Posted by Matt

thats what my gf did

Dominated.
That's how it's done.
Also, Lacrosseman, test runs are ALWAYS good.

[Red Sky]

about the saying that she fingered herself... for whatever reason my girlfriend is refusing to do that. and my girlfriend knows that she can make her mom leave the room, but then she's almost sure that her mom will pry it out of her later as to why she had to (my girlfriend is terrible at lying, especially to her parents/myself).

[Matt]

well then looks like you are SOL

[SilentWalrus]

Originally Posted by Link9228

about the saying that she fingered herself... for whatever reason my girlfriend is refusing to do that. and my girlfriend knows that she can make her mom leave the room, but then she's almost sure that her mom will pry it out of her later as to why she had to (my girlfriend is terrible at lying, especially to her parents/myself).

What she needs to do, because it is her legal right, tell the Doctor, ahead of time, when her mother isn't around, that she wants her mother out of the room.
The doctor asks her mother to leave. We all live happily ever after.
You can continue what you're doing.

[Red Sky]

how would she tell the doctor ahead of time (it isn't scheduled yet and my girfriend has no idea where she's going) and nice ninja

[SilentWalrus]

Originally Posted by Link9228

how would she tell the doctor ahead of time (it isn't scheduled yet and my girfriend has no idea where she's going) and nice ninja

She's eventually find out when it is.
Just have her call the office up before the appointment.

[Red Sky]

ok, thanks for the tips. i'll be sure to tell her that.

[moyamoya]

tell her to call the doctor, and ask him/her to skip the question... she'll answer it later.