Tch. Deal with it in therapy. Maybe while you're there, you can talk about how neither of your parents really love you despite that intimate touch that they give you every night. You know that it's just a purely physical relationship between the three of you. You want to just say that it's over with them, but you know that you could never do it. It would take too long to build that kind of relationship again. You've invested too much effort into them. Maybe, in time, you can learn to be happy with them, but right now, you're not so sure.
(I want to include a smiley right here to show that I'm not being serious so that no one is weirded out by me, and yet, at the same time, I want people to just be absolutely speechless. I guess that the best that I can come up with is this explanation of the convoluted inter-mechanizations of my mind.)
That was mean Shadow. That's like laughing at someone "jokingly" that they're adopted only to find out they really are adopted. Whether you were joking or not, that was just mean. People are going to go "taking this too seriously", "Just a joke," this is just mean, true or not. Heck, he could be being sexually abused. Not uncommon for someone to be traumatized from sexual abuse. I have no problems with jokes, even if it's just teasing. This? Just don't go there.
Talking to Bman in SB, it wouldn't surprise me at all. I think he would probably make a better admin then me.
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That was mean Shadow. That's like laughing at someone "jokingly" that they're adopted only to find out they really are adopted. Whether you were joking or not, that was just mean. People are going to go "taking this too seriously", "Just a joke," this is just mean, true or not. Heck, he could be being sexually abused. Not uncommon for someone to be traumatized from sexual abuse. I have no problems with jokes, even if it's just teasing. This? Just don't go there.
Talking to Bman in SB, it wouldn't surprise me at all. I think he would probably make a better admin then me.
(Shoot; all apologies over the Internet sound so fake and sarcastic, but here goes with I'm hoping looks like sincerity as it actually is as such)
I am absolutely sorry. I should be more considerate of the feelings of other people. Having a bad day is no excuse for making it bad for other people. (Crap, it does sound really fake).
I promise that I will absolutely try harder in the future to control what I say (type).
That was mean Shadow. That's like laughing at someone "jokingly" that they're adopted only to find out they really are adopted. Whether you were joking or not, that was just mean. People are going to go "taking this too seriously", "Just a joke," this is just mean, true or not. Heck, he could be being sexually abused. Not uncommon for someone to be traumatized from sexual abuse. I have no problems with jokes, even if it's just teasing. This? Just don't go there.
Talking to Bman in SB, it wouldn't surprise me at all. I think he would probably make a better admin then me.
This thread just needs to be put down..
putis.
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