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Old 10-28-2009, 01:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Any ideas for topics to talk about with a good friend of mine who i talk to on the phone every night? im 15, any ideas are appreciated
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Old 10-28-2009, 02:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Try to develop some kind of "inside joke" with her. That always helps with girls.
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Old 10-28-2009, 03:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
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hmm ask her: what do you like about yourself? why? then go from there
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Old 10-28-2009, 03:44 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Talk about her interests. Extremely helpful if you two share a common interest.

@j2800, you can't really develop an inside joke until he's talked to her enough.....
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Old 10-29-2009, 11:28 AM   #5 (permalink)
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-Movies-favorite movie or genre/Movies you want to see/How many more Saws are they going to make?/prices of movie theater popcorn, soda and candy
-Music-favorite band, song or genre/Programs you use to listen to music on the computer/mp3 players
-Video games if you guys play
-School/teachers/homework
-Pets
-Her favorite vacation
-What her favorite carnival ride is/favorite theme park
-2012
-Does she play any instruments?
-What career she wants
-Views of drug/alcohol use
-Books
-Dream cars
-MTV
-What foods you can cook

lol I'm full of ideas.
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Old 10-29-2009, 11:32 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 10-29-2009, 11:32 AM   #7 (permalink)
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-Movies-favorite movie or genre/Movies you want to see/How many more Saws are they going to make?/prices of movie theater popcorn, soda and candy
-Music-favorite band, song or genre/Programs you use to listen to music on the computer/mp3 players
-Video games if you guys play
-School/teachers/homework
-Pets
-Her favorite vacation
-What her favorite carnival ride is/favorite theme park
-2012
-Does she play any instruments?
-What career she wants
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-Books
-Dream cars
-MTV
-What foods you can cook

lol I'm full of ideas.
I can imagine a girls perspective is a lot better than a guys "judgement" on what to talk about.

I find music a great ice breaker, hopefully if you share the same taste.


Dream Cars I wouldn't imagine so much, as girls are not usually motor inclined.

Anything in the Movie theatre's would be a great starting point.





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Old 10-29-2009, 12:03 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Well I was kind of thinking since he's 15 maybe he isn't driving yet. Isn't that about the age you start drivers ed and maybe get your permit? Maybe they could discuss when they DO get their drivers liscense, what type of car they would like to be their first?!
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I see your point, sorry over here its another two years difference.





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Old 10-29-2009, 02:55 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Well, if you want a real relationship, I would say that you would need to find some common interests. From there, you can expand into things that you do that she finds interesting or things that she does that you find interesting.




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Old 10-29-2009, 03:08 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Today a friend and I had a very lengthy convo about whether or not we thought 2Pac would have a Twitter were he alive today. lol so there's always that to discuss....
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-Movies-favorite movie or genre/Movies you want to see/How many more Saws are they going to make?/prices of movie theater popcorn, soda and candy
-Music-favorite band, song or genre/Programs you use to listen to music on the computer/mp3 players
-Video games if you guys play
-School/teachers/homework
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-Her favorite vacation
-What her favorite carnival ride is/favorite theme park
-2012
-Does she play any instruments?
-What career she wants
-Views of drug/alcohol use
-Books
-Dream cars
-MTV
-What foods you can cook

lol I'm full of ideas.
Great stuff right there
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-Movies-favorite movie or genre/Movies you want to see/How many more Saws are they going to make?/prices of movie theater popcorn, soda and candy
-Music-favorite band, song or genre/Programs you use to listen to music on the computer/mp3 players
-Video games if you guys play
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-Her favorite vacation
-What her favorite carnival ride is/favorite theme park
-2012
-Does she play any instruments?
-What career she wants
-Views of drug/alcohol use
-Books
-Dream cars
-MTV
-What foods you can cook

lol I'm full of ideas.
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Old 10-29-2009, 10:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Old 10-31-2009, 12:15 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Kinda hard when we do not know the girl. Anything we can say is cliche and in best practice that should be avoided. I would try and find something you guys have in common and seek an activity that fits the description. Alternatively try something new, like volunteer to plant trees on earth day or something different. Whatever you guys do just dont worry about it and have fun. This way you will have something to talk about over the phone. Just something if all else fails tell a story about how your teacher made fun of you today even if its a lie she wont care nor will she ask again in the future about it. Then go like "Gahhhh I hate school" this might spark something for her to say like "OMG yea like this one time in class...." girls love to talk about themselves so let her. If not talk about yourself a little more be humorous but be yourself.
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