relationships...blah

AquaToad · 04-23-2008, 06:28 PM

Ive have a few problems in my friendships at school. For one, i think im falling in love with one of my best friends. but im too scared to do anything cause i think itll ruin our friendship. second, ive heard one of my friends "likes" me, but i dont like her. what do i do?

Bear holding a shark · 04-23-2008, 06:32 PM

Start getting "friendlier" *wink wink* with the one you like, and start spending a little less time with the one you don't. Assuming they're both girls, they should catch on pretty fast.

Get to a point when you're at least close enough to the one you like that you can talk about relationships. This will give you a much better idea as to what he/she may be looking for.

mangodroplet · 04-23-2008, 06:52 PM

lol. Saline is quite smart...
but well, if one of your friends likes you, don't estrange her. Just don't lead her on. Technically, if she hasn't told you she likes you, you shouldn't know.

Trogdor · 04-23-2008, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by AquaToad

"likes" me, but i dont like her. what do i do?

|once she and you have a minute together pull out your zune and play You don't know what love is by the white stripes|

honestly, reject her as softly as possble be decent in that way

Chiups · 04-24-2008, 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Atrocious

Take advantage of her feelings for your own physical desires.

Good answer. That would be my first instinct if she was cute.

But as for the one you like, I think Saline said it best, just get close to the one you like and if you guys start getting closer, you'll know how she feels about you, and so on and so forth.

mr.handsomeman · 04-24-2008, 07:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Atrocious

Take advantage of her feelings for your own physical desires.

that's amazing!
well, there was a thread like this that was started a while ago, really, all you can do, is get close to the girl that you like, and let her know someway. I know you don't want to ruin your friendship, but i mean, come on, if you think about it, it's worth it, if you guys aren't good enough friends to where the relationship won't change, then you probably shouldn't be thinking about going out with her in the first place man.

Gow616 · 04-24-2008, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by AquaToad

Ive have a few problems in my friendships at school. For one, i think im falling in love with one of my best friends. but im too scared to do anything cause i think itll ruin our friendship. second, ive heard one of my friends "likes" me, but i dont like her. what do i do?

If you don't like her it is better for you both in the long run not to go down that road...it will end in tears and a lost friendship. Same thing if its vice versa.

For the first one, see if there is potential, if not time to swim in new waters.

Just have to look out for those signs and if she isn't too smart for her own good (trust me I had one, save that for another story) than she will have dropped hints that she wants to pursue something more. Of course, the head might be too thick and those hints have not penetrated the skull.

Darth Camel · 04-24-2008, 03:32 PM

Love is love. If there's a chance you two would be happy together, then start to explore that possibility and try to gauge her feelings about you. About your second friend, first of all try to confirm those feelings. A rumor isn't enough. And then try to talk about it with her, making it clear that while you value her as a friend you're not interested in a relationship.

Bear holding a shark · 04-24-2008, 04:59 PM

Take Trogdor's advice. He's good at making girls avoid him.

AquaToad · 04-26-2008, 08:18 AM

TYVM guys. and they are both girls saline lol

Pierce28 · 04-26-2008, 09:52 AM

Just don't do what I did. I had a thing for one of my best friends for quite a while, but I never wanted to tell her since I didn't want to lose her as a friend.

Well, earlier this year, I talked to her about it. It turned out that she liked me, so if I had, then things would have happened. However, I had waiting too long, so it was too late. However, we are still good friends. However, I found out that her friends think I'm kinda creepy for liking her for so long and not doing anything. Oh well.

charmed61 · 04-26-2008, 10:27 AM

i have the same problem if u saw in advice column, so i cant give much adcice, but i AM getting "closer" with my friend and it seems to be working. You should try it.
As for the girl who likes you, you can either get to know her better and maybe you might just like her, or you can just tell her that "you don't feel like getting into any type of relationship right now."

mr.handsomeman · 04-29-2008, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Pierce28

Just don't do what I did. I had a thing for one of my best friends for quite a while, but I never wanted to tell her since I didn't want to lose her as a friend.

Well, earlier this year, I talked to her about it. It turned out that she liked me, so if I had, then things would have happened. However, I had waiting too long, so it was too late. However, we are still good friends. However, I found out that her friends think I'm kinda creepy for liking her for so long and not doing anything. Oh well.

you said "however" a whole lot at the end there.

But yeah, this is the type of thing you don't want to happen to you, whatever you do, don't let this happen to you man!

Jon · 04-29-2008, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by AquaToad

Ive have a few problems in my friendships at school. For one, i think im falling in love with one of my best friends. but im too scared to do anything cause i think itll ruin our friendship. second, ive heard one of my friends "likes" me, but i dont like her. what do i do?

If I were you I would keep the best friend. You wouldn't want to lose that, if it's a crush you'll get over it. A best friend is extremely hard to come by.

AquaToad · 05-05-2008, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Saline

Take Trogdor's advice. He's good at making girls avoid him.

ROFLMAO

mr.handsomeman · 05-07-2008, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Jon

If I were you I would keep the best friend. You wouldn't want to lose that, if it's a crush you'll get over it. A best friend is extremely hard to come by.

this is only half true i think, I mean, you can decide that someone is your best friend, but it means something more when you're they're best friend too, you know what I mean?

Techy Dude · 05-07-2008, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by AquaToad

Ive have a few problems in my friendships at school. For one, i think im falling in love with one of my best friends. but im too scared to do anything cause i think itll ruin our friendship. second, ive heard one of my friends "likes" me, but i dont like her. what do i do?

id wait to see how things pan out does the girl u like like anothe r guy and if she does is he a jerk im havin the same prob id wait until the girl u like pairs up with another guy [if there is one] and then when they break up step in and take over and if theres not another guy do it it shouldnt ruin ure friendship trust me ive done it plenty of times and its worked like a charm

Devious Angel · 05-08-2008, 01:59 PM

Be careful with this situation. I developed a huge crush on one of my male friends and I told him but he said he didn't like me like that. We are still friends but we don't talk as much now. So before you follow everyone's advice and go for it think about how things may change if she rejects you.

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Bear holding a shark Zune Freak Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: 15 miles south of Nowhere, USA Posts: 1,238 Reputation: 107 $zB: 779 Donate	Start getting "friendlier" wink wink with the one you like, and start spending a little less time with the one you don't. Assuming they're both girls, they should catch on pretty fast. Get to a point when you're at least close enough to the one you like that you can talk about relationships. This will give you a much better idea as to what he/she may be looking for. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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mangodroplet Jr. Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: MANGOVILLE! <3 Posts: 472 Reputation: 46 $zB: 373 Donate	lol. Saline is quite smart... but well, if one of your friends likes you, don't estrange her. Just don't lead her on. Technically, if she hasn't told you she likes you, you shouldn't know. __________________ Mango mango mango :] Yuummmm. huggles lol. Yes, I did Hug you. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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Darth Camel Zune Freak Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,102 Reputation: 61 $zB: 815 Donate	Love is love. If there's a chance you two would be happy together, then start to explore that possibility and try to gauge her feelings about you. About your second friend, first of all try to confirm those feelings. A rumor isn't enough. And then try to talk about it with her, making it clear that while you value her as a friend you're not interested in a relationship. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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Bear holding a shark Zune Freak Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: 15 miles south of Nowhere, USA Posts: 1,238 Reputation: 107 $zB: 779 Donate	Take Trogdor's advice. He's good at making girls avoid him. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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04-26-2008, 08:18 AM	#10 (permalink)
AquaToad Zune Guardian Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Carolina Posts: 765 Reputation: 31 $zB: 465 Donate	TYVM guys. and they are both girls saline lol __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Thanks Man.!

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Pierce28 zB Programmer Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: North Carolina Posts: 575 Reputation: 47 $zB: 136 Donate	Just don't do what I did. I had a thing for one of my best friends for quite a while, but I never wanted to tell her since I didn't want to lose her as a friend. Well, earlier this year, I talked to her about it. It turned out that she liked me, so if I had, then things would have happened. However, I had waiting too long, so it was too late. However, we are still good friends. However, I found out that her friends think I'm kinda creepy for liking her for so long and not doing anything. Oh well. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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charmed61 Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: The Gold Rush State! Posts: 638 Reputation: 4 $zB: 333 Donate	i have the same problem if u saw in advice column, so i cant give much adcice, but i AM getting "closer" with my friend and it seems to be working. You should try it. As for the girl who likes you, you can either get to know her better and maybe you might just like her, or you can just tell her that "you don't feel like getting into any type of relationship right now." __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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Devious Angel Jr. Zuner Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 42 Reputation: 19 $zB: 48 Donate	Be careful with this situation. I developed a huge crush on one of my male friends and I told him but he said he didn't like me like that. We are still friends but we don't talk as much now. So before you follow everyone's advice and go for it think about how things may change if she rejects you.

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