relationships...blah - Page 2

Hostile · 05-09-2008, 08:53 PM

Also though, to counter PoN's point a little. I think making a friendship into a real relationship with a girl is awesome, and you find yourself much closer to that person because you already knew so much about each other. So sometimes you need to risk it and go for it.

smosh · 07-23-2008, 07:17 AM

you should be smooth about it, ask ur friend if she/he was ever interested in u, if shes/hes your friend, this shouldnt break the bond.
-good luck <3

oops forgot, and the for the one you dont like just wait till she asks you out, easily be like, "shouldnt we stay friends for a while"
and yeaah, dont be a dick about it.

fallensbane · 07-29-2008, 10:24 AM

Romantic relationships that start out as friendships are the best ones. I have many friends who are married or have been dating those who they were close to, if not best friends with for many years now. One of the advantages is that you already know the person very well.

Recently I myself finally asked one of my best friends who I had been in love with for awhile out. I was nervous and even after asking her I wasn't sure she was going to say yes. But just letting her know for better or worse was a relief and I felt much better just having told her. In the end we did start dating and we are both much happier for it and even though we are still early in our relationship we have had no problems.

If you really love her just ask her. But ask her when you are alone. You don't want to put any pressure on her in front of others and if she does say no its better not to have a crowd watching. Besides, you don't want to get into one of those 'What if?' situations down the line. I have been there and it is never fun wondering if you should have made a move.

Advice is easy to ask for, but hard to take I know. But hopefully people here have helped a bit. Good luck

EDIT: Eh and now I notice this is an older post recently bumped up -_-

Moth · 08-11-2008, 07:22 PM

ummm....just say your gay...both girls will want you...one you don't like will understand...one you do like will be flattered she pulled you out of gayness!...don't really do this, it's a jerk move...it'd prolly work..but it's a jerk move.....

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smosh Squirt Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Reputation: 13 $zB: 14 Donate	you should be smooth about it, ask ur friend if she/he was ever interested in u, if shes/hes your friend, this shouldnt break the bond. -good luck <3 oops forgot, and the for the one you dont like just wait till she asks you out, easily be like, "shouldnt we stay friends for a while" and yeaah, dont be a dick about it. __________________ DrInk Applejuice. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. OJ will kill you. Last edited by Volpe Sinatra : 07-23-2008 at 04:31 PM.

07-29-2008, 10:24 AM	#23 (permalink)
fallensbane Experienced Zuner Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Massachusettes Posts: 105 Reputation: 21 $zB: 112 Donate	Romantic relationships that start out as friendships are the best ones. I have many friends who are married or have been dating those who they were close to, if not best friends with for many years now. One of the advantages is that you already know the person very well. Recently I myself finally asked one of my best friends who I had been in love with for awhile out. I was nervous and even after asking her I wasn't sure she was going to say yes. But just letting her know for better or worse was a relief and I felt much better just having told her. In the end we did start dating and we are both much happier for it and even though we are still early in our relationship we have had no problems. If you really love her just ask her. But ask her when you are alone. You don't want to put any pressure on her in front of others and if she does say no its better not to have a crowd watching. Besides, you don't want to get into one of those 'What if?' situations down the line. I have been there and it is never fun wondering if you should have made a move. Advice is easy to ask for, but hard to take I know. But hopefully people here have helped a bit. Good luck EDIT: Eh and now I notice this is an older post recently bumped up -_- __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

08-11-2008, 07:22 PM	#24 (permalink)
Moth Zuner Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 68 Reputation: 12 $zB: 67 Donate	ummm....just say your gay...both girls will want you...one you don't like will understand...one you do like will be flattered she pulled you out of gayness!...don't really do this, it's a jerk move...it'd prolly work..but it's a jerk move..... __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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