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I don't see why your religion should shape you. Anything good you do shouldn't be because of some hope for/fear of divine retribution, but because of your own urge to do good. The way I see it is that charity because of religion is selfishness. The same thing applies elsewhere, you should want to do moral things because it is right, you should be able to judge that by your internal standards, not because of some religious guidelines, however if your beliefs correspond to some religion's guidelines of morality, great.