[Moth]

Really it's not hard. Be yourself. If you like someones dress, or think someones cute tell them, as a friend/acquaintance. Be someone they like to be around, without sacrificing who you are (ie: change as in not being a jerk, and getting manners, but don't take interest in other stuff or change opinions or stuff to impress them). Display yourself as a person of virtue and you will get respectable women/girls flocking to you, I know from experience. Be friends first, and once your confident your good enough friends that you won't ruin your relationship by asking, you should ask to go further, or at least think about getting the other persons thoughts about it. Often times the hardest part is worrying about making a fool of yourself, and doing so when you go to ask someone out. If you are good friends they will already know who you are and if you goof up, they will realize it's cause your nervous, and it might actually help the situation, and also being good friends first should make it easier, because they'll be easy on you even if they do turn your down in an effort to save their realtionship with you as much as possible, if they value it at all. If they don't value you and you do lose it, there really wasn't much there in the first place.