Well I'll be damned. I got it to work after all. Set everything up on the other computer and then transferred it back, and it's creating the library and all that good stuff on its own!
PLUS all my JPop and stuff will display correctly, an added bonus for the pain and suffering Microsoft has brough to me by sticking with their 'newer versions'... sigh, why is it that 'newest versions' are always crappy compared to older ones? MSN, AIM, AOL, Yahoo, etc? >.<