[Chri(Z)tian]

Tell her, why you may ask??... Well from my own personal experience. I was friends with this girl for like 2 years. We were really good friends, always chilln', etc...But for the whole time we stayed at the "friend/semi best friend" status. Now just like you I started having feelings for her. So I made a plan to ask her out and tell her that I got these feelings for her. I was so sure that she'd have the same feelings towards me because everyone told aw you guys should go out, she likes you, blah blah blah etc...I waited 3 weeks from the time I made the choice to ask/tell her. And guess what by the time I grew the balls to do so...I lost my chance.. she had been taken away... She had a boyfriend. And guess what 1 year later she is still going out with the guy!!!

All in all just tell her, if you don't you'll regret never doing so. The thought of what if..you did. Will linger and haunt the inner most thoughts of your mind trust me!! But one thing you need to know , your chance to tell her wont be open for ever. Just tell her, and if things go bad in the end. Deal with it! You have to make sacrifices when it comes to "love". Plus I don't think anything will go wrong anyways if you were friends with her for 3.5 years then your friendship should hold its own if she doesn't have the same feelings as you do for her in the end. But yeah do it!!! Grow Some Balls!!! Man Up!!! Do it while you can before some sweeps her off her feet....just do it trust me. You don't want to be like me, and see her with the man who stepped up to the plate before I did everyday..while knowing that if you just said something earlier she could of been yours.

Oh yah tell me how after 1 year of her going out with her boy friend..her cousins and mom finally get to telln me that she liked me back then. Like how she always talked about me and stuff...See I missed my chance don't miss yours!