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Old 01-14-2007, 11:55 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Default Re: Sex Before Marriage

Anyone with a simple understanding of history and can see the overall picture knows that society drifts between two forms of sexuality, the Victorian and the Lover. The psychology names escape me at the moment but you can get the gist of what I am stating. If so skip to next paragraph. If not here is an elaboration. The Victorian is a form that oppresses all forms of sexuality and is prudish, as in sex is viewed as evil and there is too much control over the issue that it can lead to psychology problems. The Lover is the absence of control it is the opposite of the Victorian. Examples, Convent = Victorian while Woodstock 1969 = Lover.

As society drifts between the two spectrums reaching a pinnacle or total alignment with one side it throws off that side and shifts back the other way. Where there is too much control people seek freedom and the opposite happens when the role switched.

I think sexuality is completely natural as humans along with every single organism on this planet needs sex to reproduce. It is just we get an added bonus of it "feeling good" in some cases and unlike animals we don't have to it to reproduce but solely for pleasure. It is probably this part of the issue that gets the most attention.

I think though that if people can wake up and realize that sex is not evil even if it was done only for pleasure as there is too much pain in a life that just a brief moment of pleasure is really one of the only things that can get us through this miserable existence called life. All things in moderation though.
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